What the process actually looks like
What happens in a deposition
For most people who bring a civil claim, the deposition is the day they are most afraid of — and the day they most often say afterwards was smaller than they had built it up to be. Here is what one is, who is in the room, what you can be asked, and what the law says you cannot be asked.
Nothing on this page is a reason to decide anything today
People sometimes rule out a claim because of a picture in their head of being cross-examined in a courtroom. That picture is usually wrong, and it is worth replacing with an accurate one before you use it to make a decision. A deposition is a conference room, a court reporter, and a set of questions you can prepare for with your own lawyer sitting next to you.
What a deposition is
A deposition is sworn testimony taken out of court, during the discovery phase of a civil case. You answer questions under oath. A court reporter records every word and produces a written transcript; sometimes it is also recorded on video.
Two things follow from that. First, it is real testimony — what you say can be read back at trial, so accuracy matters more than eloquence. Second, nothing is decided at a deposition. No judge is present. Nobody wins or loses. It is information-gathering.
Who is in the room
| Who | What they do |
|---|---|
| You | Answer the questions asked. Nothing more — you are not there to tell your story in your own order. |
| Your lawyer | Sits beside you, objects where appropriate, asks for breaks, and may ask clarifying questions at the end. |
| Opposing counsel | Asks the questions. Often more than one lawyer, if there are multiple defendants. |
| Court reporter | Administers the oath and transcribes everything. Neutral. |
| Videographer | Only if the deposition is being recorded on video, which is common but not universal. |
| The defendant | Has a right to attend. In practice this is frequently handled by remote appearance or by agreement — see below. |
There is no judge, no jury, and no public gallery. Depositions are not court hearings and they are not open to the public.
How long it lasts
California caps most depositions. Under Code of Civil Procedure § 2025.290, examination of a witness by all counsel other than the witness’s own is limited to seven hours of total testimony. The court can extend that where it is needed to examine the witness fairly, or where something has obstructed the examination.
Seven hours means seven hours on the record. Breaks, lunch, and time spent arguing between lawyers do not count against it. In practice a plaintiff’s deposition in a case like this often runs most of a day, and it can be broken across two shorter days if that is arranged in advance.
The seven-hour limit does not apply where:
- the parties have stipulated in writing that it does not;
- the witness is a designated expert;
- the case has been designated complex by the court;
- the case is an employment case brought by an employee or applicant against an employer;
- the witness is a person most qualified designated by an organisation.
Cases involving many plaintiffs against the same institution are often designated complex, which removes the automatic seven-hour cap. That does not mean depositions run indefinitely — it means length is managed by the court and by agreement rather than by the default rule. Ask your lawyer which regime your case is under.
What you will be asked about
Questioning in a medical sexual abuse case tends to fall into three buckets.
1. Background
Where you have lived, worked and studied; your family; other medical treatment. Some of this feels intrusive and irrelevant, and some of it is — the point is usually to establish a timeline and to test whether other explanations exist for the harm you describe.
2. The treatment itself
When you first saw the physician, how often, who referred you, what happened at particular appointments, whether anyone else was present, what was said. Dates will be pressed on. If your records have been produced, you may be shown them and asked to read from them.
3. The effects
How your life changed; whether you told anyone at the time and when; therapy or medical treatment since; how you came to connect what happened to the harm you experienced. In a case that turns on the discovery rule, the question “when did you understand this as an injury?” is central rather than incidental.
What they are not allowed to do
The single most useful protection to know about is Code of Civil Procedure § 2017.220. In a civil action alleging conduct constituting sexual harassment, sexual assault or sexual battery, a defendant cannot simply start asking a plaintiff about their sexual conduct with other people.
To get that discovery at all, the defendant must bring a noticed motion, accompanied by a meet-and-confer declaration, and must establish specific facts showing good cause — that the material is relevant to the subject matter and reasonably calculated to lead to admissible evidence. It cannot be obtained by ex parte application.
In plain terms: your sexual history with others is presumptively off-limits, the burden is on the defence to justify any part of it, a judge decides before it happens, and your lawyer gets to argue about it first. It is not something that can be sprung on you in the room.
Beyond that statute, ordinary limits apply. Privileged communications — with your lawyer, and in California with a sexual assault counsellor — are protected. Questions that are argumentative, harassing, or already asked and answered draw objections. And a witness can always take a break.
What “objection” means
This surprises people. In a deposition, when your lawyer objects, you usually still answer. The objection is being preserved on the record for a judge to rule on later, if the transcript is ever used. There are exceptions — most importantly, a lawyer can instruct a witness not to answer where the question invades a privilege.
So do not read an objection as a signal that a question is out of bounds. Read it as your lawyer flagging something for later. If you are ever unsure whether to answer, you can say you would like to speak to your attorney.
Practical things that actually help
- Listen to the whole question. Then pause. The pause gives your lawyer room to object and gives you room to think. It reads as careful, not evasive.
- Answer only what was asked. Volunteering extra opens doors you did not need to open.
- “I don’t remember” is an answer. For events twenty or thirty years ago it is often the only honest one. Guessing is what damages a witness, not admitting the limits of memory.
- Ask for the question to be repeated if it was compound or confusing. That is your right and it happens constantly.
- Ask for breaks. You do not need a reason. The only conventional restriction is that a break is not taken with a question pending.
- Correct yourself. If you realise an earlier answer was wrong, say so on the record. There is also an errata process after you receive the transcript.
- Prepare with your lawyer. A preparation session before the deposition is standard practice, not special treatment, and it is where most of the anxiety gets dealt with.
Where the deposition sits in the case
| Stage | What it involves | Your involvement |
|---|---|---|
| Complaint filed | Your lawyer files; the defendants are served | Reviewing and approving the complaint |
| Answer and motions | Defendants respond and may challenge the pleadings | Usually none |
| Written discovery | Written questions and document requests both ways | Helping answer questions; providing records |
| Depositions | Sworn testimony from plaintiffs, defendants and witnesses | One day, prepared for in advance |
| Mediation and settlement talks | A neutral tries to broker a resolution | Attending or being available by phone |
| Trial | Only if the case does not resolve | Testifying, if it gets there |
Most civil cases resolve before trial. Being deposed does not mean a courtroom is coming; it means the case has reached the stage where both sides gather evidence. What filing actually involves covers the wider timeline in more detail.
Privacy around your testimony
Deposition transcripts are not filed with the court as a matter of course and are not public documents simply by existing. Protective orders can restrict how testimony and records are used and who may see them. Separately, California courts can permit a survivor to litigate under a pseudonym in appropriate cases, which affects what appears in the public docket. Both are worth raising with a lawyer at the outset rather than later. Privacy and anonymity goes through this in full.
Common questions
Will I be in the same room as the doctor?
A defendant has the right to attend a deposition in the case. In practice a great many depositions are now taken by remote video, and arrangements can often be negotiated or ordered so that a plaintiff is not sitting across a table from the person they have accused. Raise it with your lawyer early rather than on the day. It is a common request, not an unusual one.
What if I break down?
People do. The reporter stops, you take a break, and you resume when you are ready. It is not held against you and it is not unusual in these cases. Experienced counsel on both sides expect it.
Can I bring someone with me?
Often yes, though who may be present is subject to the rules and to agreement between the lawyers — and someone who is themselves a potential witness may be excluded. A support person with no involvement in the facts is usually the easiest to arrange. Ask your lawyer well in advance.
Do I have to give an exact date?
No. You are asked for your best recollection. “It was the winter after my son was born” is a real answer. Records, appointment histories and billing statements are what pin down exact dates, which is one of the reasons requesting your records early is useful.
Can I see the transcript afterwards?
Yes. As the deponent you have the right to review the transcript and to note corrections through the errata process within the period allowed. Your lawyer will walk you through it.
What if I have already told a therapist about this?
Therapy records can become an issue where a plaintiff puts their emotional condition in issue, and it is a subject to discuss frankly with your lawyer before filing rather than after. California also recognises a sexual assault counsellor privilege, which is separate from and in some respects stronger than the general psychotherapist privilege.
A deposition usually comes somewhere in the middle of a case, after documents have been exchanged and often shortly before settlement talks begin. For where it sits relative to everything else, see how long a civil lawsuit takes.
Next steps that commit you to nothing
- Read what filing actually involves — the full timeline, start to finish
- Understand what stays private — pseudonyms, protective orders, and what is on the public record
- Request your medical records — useful whatever you decide, and they establish dates
- RAINN — 800-656-4673, free and confidential, 24/7
- 988 — Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, call or text, 24/7
- LA Rape & Battering Hotline — 213-626-3393
Sources
- California Code of Civil Procedure § 2025.290 — the seven-hour limit on deposition testimony and its exceptions.
- California Code of Civil Procedure § 2017.220 — good cause, noticed motion and meet-and-confer requirements before discovery into a plaintiff’s sexual conduct in a case alleging sexual harassment, assault or battery.
- California Evidence Code § 1035.8 — the sexual assault counsellor–victim privilege.
- California Code of Civil Procedure §§ 2025.010 and following — the Civil Discovery Act provisions governing oral depositions generally.
Last reviewed and updated: September 3, 2026. This page describes general California civil procedure and is not legal advice about your situation. Procedure varies between cases; confirm anything here with your own lawyer before relying on it.